The Complete Guide to Purchasing Wedding Bands

When it comes to wedding planning, deciding who buys the wedding bands is a big decision for any couple. Splitting the cost evenly, opening a joint wedding bank account or going into a store together can be helpful ways to openly discuss finances and make this important purchase as a team.

Know Your Budget

While choosing a venue, booking vendors, and picking out your dress take center stage in wedding planning, purchasing the rings shouldn’t be overlooked. You and your partner need to sit down and discuss how much you’re comfortable spending on each ring. Many couples prefer matching his-and-her bands, but you can find non-matching designs that reflect each individual’s style. Additionally, you should consider your budget when deciding on the size of your band. If you are not limiting your budget, choosing a good quality wedding band would be fine if you’re used to buying luxury goods & jewelry. Intricate etchings and engraving can add up. 

Know Your Style

You can express your unique love story through your wedding bands. While matching bands used to be the norm, it is now completely acceptable for you and your fiance to have separate styles that complement each other. It’s also a good idea to consider your lifestyle when shopping for your rings. For example, if you work with your hands often, a durable metal like tungsten can last longer than gold or platinum. It means your rings will look newer for a longer period.

Know Your Metal

The type of metal you choose for your wedding band will influence its durability. For example, people in trades that frequently use hands may prefer the more durable alternative metals like titanium or tungsten. Traditional metals like gold are also popular for wedding bands, especially since they symbolize lasting love. Other unique options include palladium, which is a rare and precious metal that is hypoallergenic. Remember that some metals, such as tungsten and titanium, cannot be resized, so choosing the right size is important when buying your ring.

Know Your Finger Size

It’s important to know your ring size. It will determine how well the ring fits, which is especially important for men’s rings since they don’t have the flexibility of a women’s band. You should measure your finger when it is warm and swollen in the evening. Also, avoid eating salty foods or strenuous activity before measuring for an accurate ring size. It is also best to visit a jeweler at least a month before your wedding date. It gives you plenty of time to browse, shop around and revisit bands that catch your eye.

Know Your Ring Size

You can measure your partner’s ring size at home using ribbon, twine, paper, or floss. Be sure to use non-stretchable materials for the most accurate results. Ensure to include the knuckle area when measuring, as fingers shrink or expand based on temperature and activity. If you’re buying for someone else, it’s often best to ask them instead of trying to figure out their ring size yourself. You can also figure it out by looking at their other rings or asking a trusted friend.

Know Your Engraving Options

Inscriptions are a beautiful and personal touch to your wedding bands. There are endless options, like etching the lyrics of your favorite song or even your initials! You can also engrave latitude and longitude coordinates, a unique way to commemorate your special day. Other popular engravings include song lyrics, endearing words or phrases that only you and your partner know, or a bible verse that has spiritual meaning for both of you.

Know Your Metal Finish

There are many options for metal finishes, including polished, brushed, or hammered. Consider your lifestyle when making this decision, as some metals are more durable than others. For example, titanium rings are lightweight and hypoallergenic. Titanium also offers a shiny appearance that is easy to maintain. Stainless steel is another durable option and is often less expensive than gold. However, it may tarnish faster than other metals. Gold has been around for millennia, but if you’re looking for something more modern and durable, we recommend checking out men’s rings made of titanium. It’s also more budget-friendly and has different finishes like matte, polished, hammered or brushed. While matching wedding bands was the norm, there are no rules against finding a style that speaks to you and your partner’s styles. Giving yourself ample time to browse and consider all your options is best.

The finish of a wedding band can make all the difference in how well it stands up to everyday wear and tear. Some metals are more durable than others, so ask your jeweler about the different options. Gold rings are traditional and can be found in many karat types. Higher karat golds tend to have more luster and are tarnish-resistant. While more expensive than gold, platinum and palladium are more durable and allergy-friendly. Cobalt is a white metal that resembles platinum and doesn’t need to be replaced with silver. Your wedding day can be an emotional and hectic time. Shopping for wedding bands should be separate from that. Men’s wedding rings can be engraved with initials, dates or a saying by hand or laser. Intricate etching can trap dirt and may require more frequent cleaning. If the groom works with his hands or plays sports, he may prefer a simpler, solid metal band that won’t get lost or scratched as easily. Titanium and tungsten are great options for rugged wear. Platinum is also an exceptionally durable choice